"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Date Without a car

BW14

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It seems like I have done everything with this girl except go on a date with her she said she would go out on a date with me but neither one of us have a car so basically i'm screwed so how do you have a date without a car:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Meet at a park....

Meet at a resturant...

Just meet her somewhere, aslong as you get to hang out and be with her who really cares if you go out on an "offical date."

Sounds like to me your doing good without taking her out;)
 

OrlandoDaHash

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I was in the same situation. On one hand it's pathetic but on the other it's kind of romantic.... like you two would like to come together but can't... there is something stopping you.. and you need to overcome this obstacle in the name of Love. It ads to the excitement of seduction and excitement is highly valuable here.

Now as for the car-less getting there date ideas: share a cab, share a bus, ask a friend to drop you off and pick you up, go with a bike, take a walk, rent a car (maybe even a limo), etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Smooth as Anything

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Originally posted by knight56
Well i dont have a car..but does that mean girls will hate me??
No? C'mon man, give me a ****ing break :)
 

fatkins

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My girlfriend has a car, I don't, lol. I bum rides of people, it sucks but like I care.
 
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