"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Date Without a car

BW14

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It seems like I have done everything with this girl except go on a date with her she said she would go out on a date with me but neither one of us have a car so basically i'm screwed so how do you have a date without a car:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Meet at a park....

Meet at a resturant...

Just meet her somewhere, aslong as you get to hang out and be with her who really cares if you go out on an "offical date."

Sounds like to me your doing good without taking her out;)
 

OrlandoDaHash

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I was in the same situation. On one hand it's pathetic but on the other it's kind of romantic.... like you two would like to come together but can't... there is something stopping you.. and you need to overcome this obstacle in the name of Love. It ads to the excitement of seduction and excitement is highly valuable here.

Now as for the car-less getting there date ideas: share a cab, share a bus, ask a friend to drop you off and pick you up, go with a bike, take a walk, rent a car (maybe even a limo), etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smooth as Anything

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Originally posted by knight56
Well i dont have a car..but does that mean girls will hate me??
No? C'mon man, give me a ****ing break :)
 

fatkins

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My girlfriend has a car, I don't, lol. I bum rides of people, it sucks but like I care.
 
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