"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Date with MILF. Worth It?

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I am 27, and setup a date with SMOKING HOT 36 year old.

She is divorced and has a kid. She agreed to meet me for drinks this weekend. However I am feeling bad now because I am not serious about this whole thing. I just want to see what its like to go on a date with a MILF. I feel bad making her get a babysitter and everything because what if she is serious?

What do I do? Please help. I never dated a MILF before.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's barely a MILF. Go see what she's about. Cut it short if you don't feel it. Nothing lost. She may turn out to be a hot bang.
 
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But I have no interest in being serious with her. I feel I am being immature just because I want to live my fantasy of going on a date with an older woman.
 
Peaks&Valleys

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BULL3TPR00F said:
But I have no interest in being serious with her.
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You sound like a woman who has to have the whole future of your relationship planned out before you even go on your first date.

Just go on the date and take it from there. What's the problem?

I've got news for ya buddy, these "MILFS" usually aren't looking for anything serious either, sometimes they are, but usually they're just looking to get their vag's blown out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she is likely fantasizing about having her hotness validated by banging a young man. Win win for both of you.
 
The Duke

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How many guys do you think she has gone on dates with just because she didn't have anything else better going on, was trying to score some validation, or just wanted a free meal? Girls do this kind of stuff all the time.


This is all about satisfying her own ego. You are 10yrs younger and she see's you as her "trophy" she can brag about to all her girlfriends. If she's not smart enough to know what dating a guy 10yrs younger is all about, then its time to find out!

Stop thinking too much. If she is hot and fun, then go for it. Rail on it til the wheels come off.
 
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On the off chance this is legit thread, agree with others. Just go on the f-ing date, it's just a date, not time to be "serious" about anything. If you -were- "serious about this whole thing" at this point, THEN that would be a big problem. Stop the hand-flapping.
 
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