"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am 27, and setup a date with SMOKING HOT 36 year old.

She is divorced and has a kid. She agreed to meet me for drinks this weekend. However I am feeling bad now because I am not serious about this whole thing. I just want to see what its like to go on a date with a MILF. I feel bad making her get a babysitter and everything because what if she is serious?

What do I do? Please help. I never dated a MILF before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's barely a MILF. Go see what she's about. Cut it short if you don't feel it. Nothing lost. She may turn out to be a hot bang.
 
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But I have no interest in being serious with her. I feel I am being immature just because I want to live my fantasy of going on a date with an older woman.
 
Peaks&Valleys

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BULL3TPR00F said:
But I have no interest in being serious with her.
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You sound like a woman who has to have the whole future of your relationship planned out before you even go on your first date.

Just go on the date and take it from there. What's the problem?

I've got news for ya buddy, these "MILFS" usually aren't looking for anything serious either, sometimes they are, but usually they're just looking to get their vag's blown out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she is likely fantasizing about having her hotness validated by banging a young man. Win win for both of you.
 
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How many guys do you think she has gone on dates with just because she didn't have anything else better going on, was trying to score some validation, or just wanted a free meal? Girls do this kind of stuff all the time.


This is all about satisfying her own ego. You are 10yrs younger and she see's you as her "trophy" she can brag about to all her girlfriends. If she's not smart enough to know what dating a guy 10yrs younger is all about, then its time to find out!

Stop thinking too much. If she is hot and fun, then go for it. Rail on it til the wheels come off.
 
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On the off chance this is legit thread, agree with others. Just go on the f-ing date, it's just a date, not time to be "serious" about anything. If you -were- "serious about this whole thing" at this point, THEN that would be a big problem. Stop the hand-flapping.
 
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