"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Date with MILF. Worth It?

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I am 27, and setup a date with SMOKING HOT 36 year old.

She is divorced and has a kid. She agreed to meet me for drinks this weekend. However I am feeling bad now because I am not serious about this whole thing. I just want to see what its like to go on a date with a MILF. I feel bad making her get a babysitter and everything because what if she is serious?

What do I do? Please help. I never dated a MILF before.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's barely a MILF. Go see what she's about. Cut it short if you don't feel it. Nothing lost. She may turn out to be a hot bang.
 
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But I have no interest in being serious with her. I feel I am being immature just because I want to live my fantasy of going on a date with an older woman.
 
Peaks&Valleys

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BULL3TPR00F said:
But I have no interest in being serious with her.
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You sound like a woman who has to have the whole future of your relationship planned out before you even go on your first date.

Just go on the date and take it from there. What's the problem?

I've got news for ya buddy, these "MILFS" usually aren't looking for anything serious either, sometimes they are, but usually they're just looking to get their vag's blown out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she is likely fantasizing about having her hotness validated by banging a young man. Win win for both of you.
 
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How many guys do you think she has gone on dates with just because she didn't have anything else better going on, was trying to score some validation, or just wanted a free meal? Girls do this kind of stuff all the time.


This is all about satisfying her own ego. You are 10yrs younger and she see's you as her "trophy" she can brag about to all her girlfriends. If she's not smart enough to know what dating a guy 10yrs younger is all about, then its time to find out!

Stop thinking too much. If she is hot and fun, then go for it. Rail on it til the wheels come off.
 
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On the off chance this is legit thread, agree with others. Just go on the f-ing date, it's just a date, not time to be "serious" about anything. If you -were- "serious about this whole thing" at this point, THEN that would be a big problem. Stop the hand-flapping.
 
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