"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Date with MILF. Worth It?

BULL3TPR00F

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I am 27, and setup a date with SMOKING HOT 36 year old.

She is divorced and has a kid. She agreed to meet me for drinks this weekend. However I am feeling bad now because I am not serious about this whole thing. I just want to see what its like to go on a date with a MILF. I feel bad making her get a babysitter and everything because what if she is serious?

What do I do? Please help. I never dated a MILF before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VladPatton

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That's barely a MILF. Go see what she's about. Cut it short if you don't feel it. Nothing lost. She may turn out to be a hot bang.
 

BULL3TPR00F

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But I have no interest in being serious with her. I feel I am being immature just because I want to live my fantasy of going on a date with an older woman.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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BULL3TPR00F said:
But I have no interest in being serious with her.
You sound like a woman who has to have the whole future of your relationship planned out before you even go on your first date.

Just go on the date and take it from there. What's the problem?

I've got news for ya buddy, these "MILFS" usually aren't looking for anything serious either, sometimes they are, but usually they're just looking to get their vag's blown out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MtnMan

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she is likely fantasizing about having her hotness validated by banging a young man. Win win for both of you.
 

The Duke

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How many guys do you think she has gone on dates with just because she didn't have anything else better going on, was trying to score some validation, or just wanted a free meal? Girls do this kind of stuff all the time.


This is all about satisfying her own ego. You are 10yrs younger and she see's you as her "trophy" she can brag about to all her girlfriends. If she's not smart enough to know what dating a guy 10yrs younger is all about, then its time to find out!

Stop thinking too much. If she is hot and fun, then go for it. Rail on it til the wheels come off.
 

dasein

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On the off chance this is legit thread, agree with others. Just go on the f-ing date, it's just a date, not time to be "serious" about anything. If you -were- "serious about this whole thing" at this point, THEN that would be a big problem. Stop the hand-flapping.
 
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