“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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escaleraroyal

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went on a second date with her. I touched her lightly while joking. She says don't touch her, and she says she don't like to be touched.

What do you do with this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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went on a second date with her. I touched her lightly while joking. She says don't touch her, and she says she don't like to be touched.

What do you do with this?
Next. Like erase her number and move on man. Low interest or simply a sneater.
 

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If a woman doesn't reply, she's being uncooperative. If a woman doesn’t let you touch her on a 2nd date, she is being uncooperative.
Any time a woman is being uncooperative, it means she's not interested. She is unsubscribed and deleted. It does not matter why.
 

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Why the f0ck is she going out on dates if she doesnt want to be touched? Sneater or troll
 

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Why do you think she didn't want you touching her?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If this women was being serious, and it sounds like she was, simply tell her the date is over and leave. You owe her nothing.

I bet within 20 minutes of you leaving her arse she would have been ready for you to touch her.
 

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Seriously on your first meeting with a woman you need to kino. If you don’t you just cannot figure out if she’s attracted or not. There are many ways to kino. Two dates with a low interest woman if 2 too many.
 

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This is why I always go for the kiss in the middle of a date rather than at the end. Not like 10 minutes into it but maybe after a couple of hours. If I try to kiss mid date and she rejects, it's time go call it a night and go home to "walk my pet fish" or whatever other excuse I can find for cutting the date short.
 

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@The Duke. I have no idea. She told me on our first date that she was conservative.

I also deleted her number and any contact from her. It was a waste of time.
You should have wore the MAGA hat on the second date. Then she would have let you touch her. You have to calibrate better.
 

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This is why I always go for the kiss in the middle of a date rather than at the end.
Seriously on your first meeting with a woman you need to kino. There are many ways to kino.
This is a good move. Also, if you try a kiss mid-date and she rejects then, then there's still enough time to try some more escalation tactics and see if she's receptive to a kiss near the end of the date. That's optional though.

There are some good pre-kiss escalation tactics to ensure she's ready to be kissed in the middle of the date. I use those and rarely encounter any resistance to a kiss.

If a woman doesn't reply, she's being uncooperative. If a woman doesn’t let you touch her on a 2nd date, she is being uncooperative.
Any time a woman is being uncooperative, it means she's not interested. She is unsubscribed and deleted. It does not matter why.
If this women was being serious, and it sounds like she was, simply tell her the date is over and leave. You owe her nothing.
Doing this is another approach if you don't want to re-try kino escalation. I would likely do this if light touch received such a negative reaction.
 

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I think mor women need to do that. I think women would loose their collective feces.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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