"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Date with 19 yr old tomorrow

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This is a funny story. 4 years ago I used to work in this building and the cleaning crew would come in every night, and there was a cute girl on the crew.

So I hit on her and got her # and we went out once. I found out during the date she was only 15!! Believe me she looked alot older I had no idea she was that young.

So of course I didn't try anything and I took her home and never called her again. I forgot I had added her to my instant messenger list. I deleted her a long time ago but I was still on her list so she was able to see I was online and message me.

We made plans to go out tomorrow night almost 4 years later.

So that means she is 19 now and ripe for the picking baby! This could be fun.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tenzen said:
good stuff

The best part is I should have been at work away from the computer last night but I had to call out yesterday due to my bum shoulder popping out of the socket.

So technically I should have never seen her online last night... I went from a horrible day in the E/R to being glad it happened because now I have a date tomorrow!
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
This is a funny story. 4 years ago I used to work in this building and the cleaning crew would come in every night, and there was a cute girl on the crew.

So I hit on her and got her # and we went out once. I found out during the date she was only 15!! Believe me she looked alot older I had no idea she was that young.

So of course I didn't try anything and I took her home and never called her again. I forgot I had added her to my instant messenger list. I deleted her a long time ago but I was still on her list so she was able to see I was online and message me.

We made plans to go out tomorrow night almost 4 years later.

So that means she is 19 now and ripe for the picking baby! This could be fun.
In the meantime she has banged a dozen or more guys. At least that is what I would be thinking,
 
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meitenesrigas said:
In the meantime she has banged a dozen or more guys. At least that is what I would be thinking,

Can't hate her for that. Look at the things I've done in those 4 years.

I just finished a chat with her and the date is still on. She sent me one of those big smiley icons licking its lips... could that be a hint what's in store for me?

Maybe someone up in the sky really DOES like me!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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