"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Date with 19 yr old tomorrow

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This is a funny story. 4 years ago I used to work in this building and the cleaning crew would come in every night, and there was a cute girl on the crew.

So I hit on her and got her # and we went out once. I found out during the date she was only 15!! Believe me she looked alot older I had no idea she was that young.

So of course I didn't try anything and I took her home and never called her again. I forgot I had added her to my instant messenger list. I deleted her a long time ago but I was still on her list so she was able to see I was online and message me.

We made plans to go out tomorrow night almost 4 years later.

So that means she is 19 now and ripe for the picking baby! This could be fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tenzen said:
good stuff

The best part is I should have been at work away from the computer last night but I had to call out yesterday due to my bum shoulder popping out of the socket.

So technically I should have never seen her online last night... I went from a horrible day in the E/R to being glad it happened because now I have a date tomorrow!
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
This is a funny story. 4 years ago I used to work in this building and the cleaning crew would come in every night, and there was a cute girl on the crew.

So I hit on her and got her # and we went out once. I found out during the date she was only 15!! Believe me she looked alot older I had no idea she was that young.

So of course I didn't try anything and I took her home and never called her again. I forgot I had added her to my instant messenger list. I deleted her a long time ago but I was still on her list so she was able to see I was online and message me.

We made plans to go out tomorrow night almost 4 years later.

So that means she is 19 now and ripe for the picking baby! This could be fun.
In the meantime she has banged a dozen or more guys. At least that is what I would be thinking,
 
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meitenesrigas said:
In the meantime she has banged a dozen or more guys. At least that is what I would be thinking,

Can't hate her for that. Look at the things I've done in those 4 years.

I just finished a chat with her and the date is still on. She sent me one of those big smiley icons licking its lips... could that be a hint what's in store for me?

Maybe someone up in the sky really DOES like me!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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