"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Date with 19 yr old tomorrow

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This is a funny story. 4 years ago I used to work in this building and the cleaning crew would come in every night, and there was a cute girl on the crew.

So I hit on her and got her # and we went out once. I found out during the date she was only 15!! Believe me she looked alot older I had no idea she was that young.

So of course I didn't try anything and I took her home and never called her again. I forgot I had added her to my instant messenger list. I deleted her a long time ago but I was still on her list so she was able to see I was online and message me.

We made plans to go out tomorrow night almost 4 years later.

So that means she is 19 now and ripe for the picking baby! This could be fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tenzen said:
good stuff

The best part is I should have been at work away from the computer last night but I had to call out yesterday due to my bum shoulder popping out of the socket.

So technically I should have never seen her online last night... I went from a horrible day in the E/R to being glad it happened because now I have a date tomorrow!
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
This is a funny story. 4 years ago I used to work in this building and the cleaning crew would come in every night, and there was a cute girl on the crew.

So I hit on her and got her # and we went out once. I found out during the date she was only 15!! Believe me she looked alot older I had no idea she was that young.

So of course I didn't try anything and I took her home and never called her again. I forgot I had added her to my instant messenger list. I deleted her a long time ago but I was still on her list so she was able to see I was online and message me.

We made plans to go out tomorrow night almost 4 years later.

So that means she is 19 now and ripe for the picking baby! This could be fun.
In the meantime she has banged a dozen or more guys. At least that is what I would be thinking,
 
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meitenesrigas said:
In the meantime she has banged a dozen or more guys. At least that is what I would be thinking,

Can't hate her for that. Look at the things I've done in those 4 years.

I just finished a chat with her and the date is still on. She sent me one of those big smiley icons licking its lips... could that be a hint what's in store for me?

Maybe someone up in the sky really DOES like me!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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