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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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date tomrorow... she's married!

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this would be the second married woman i've been with.

i feel a tiny bit bad that i'm meeting a married woman tomorrow. she likes me i know it because she never leaves me alone. she hates it when i don't talk to her. i tried to keep my distance cause of the marriage thing but i think she gets lonely... her husband works away alot. she's offered to meet me and see a movie a few times and i finally gave in today and i'm going tomorrow... IF i keep the plan on the go that is. i like her because she's older and mature. she doesn't play those silly head games. she's just open and straight out. i set a date with her within five minutes no hassles. i planned it all and took the lead. i dont know what to do. doesn't hurt to go i guess. i'm not gonna plant any moves.

if she didnt have a great personality, this probably wouldn't of happened.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, I've had sex with married women before that were cheating on their husbands, and I regretted it both times. The husband's NEVER found out about it, but it still bothers me that I did it behind another man's back. And, I banged her in HIS bed while he was away on business, so that made me feel even worse, and it wasn't even that fun because I was nervous because I was banging a woman in another man's bed. When it was over the chick says to me with a smile, "this tonight......it just....happened." And, she was laughing when she said it and she is the one that pursued it, and she says it "just happened." Ah, cheating hos.
 

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say no to hors, montana


she doesn't play those silly head games.
you mean she doesn't play games with YOU. she's clearly playing another man


if she didnt have a great personality, this probably wouldn't of happened
hors are only good for physical pleasure. Forget about her personality.
 

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well i don't see no relationship happening but i haven't had a proper date in a while because of all the hor's around. at least if i go with her it will keep me busy because i just sit at home all the time wondering when i'm gonna find that special girl.

like you ryannath, i was in the exact same situation. it was in the husbands bed. however, i didn't regret it... was my first time and she was great. i say, if a woman is gonna cheat, she's already done it before she fuked you. it's not our fault they are hor's. if it's not you it's gonna be someone else... and if they're gonna open their legs, might as well dive in.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmm i know. thats the one thing that's making me think twice about this. should i call it off lol. i've always been picky about the way a girl looks and the only good thing about this one is her eyes. she looks a bit biggish. i just wanna see the movie!
 

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i think Monster woke me up a bit and i'm thinking of cancelling it. i've had much better than that. just lately i can't be fuked trying to game on hot girls...requires more effort :p
 

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she's not ugly, more like a 6 probably. But it's seriously stupid to date a hor. If you're going to do anything with a hor, sex her. Don't go have dinner and a movie with her.
 

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i'm trying to actually find someone else at the moment lol. i feel a bit silly going on a date with a married woman.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FFS! im starting to get pissed off... everytime i ask a girl to do somethin they say they are busy!!!! women are always fukin busy! the only one is this damn married woman sittin at home alone. i asked this hottie just then on the phone and it went somethin like this;

blah blah blah (fast forward to the bad part)

me: well i am passing that way tomorrow. i'd like you to come for a walk with me, maybe see a movie.

her: im studying at school all morning and afternoon and have papers to do

me: alright, no problem. we'll do it another time... i'll talk to you later okay my bus is here. see ya.

this sucks cause she's one of the nicest girls i met she just never wants to go anywhere. she's always either doing martial arts training, at the gym, studying or some other bullsh!t.
 

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some women are truly so busy that they are undateable

Most of the time, tho, busy-ness is just an excuse to turn you down. Get better at your game and don't be so damn needy. Don't settle for low-quality hors.

And btw, don't suggest seeing a movie as a first date. Not only does it generally not work, but even if it does, you don't get a chance to converse much.
 

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can you believe one girl i spoke to a few hours ago said AFTER i asked her when does she get a free day... she goes: "i gotta go, talk to you soon okay." pfft. she's out the window i guess.

Obsidian said:
some women are truly so busy that they are undateable

Most of the time, tho, busy-ness is just an excuse to turn you down. Get better at your game and don't be so damn needy. Don't settle for low-quality hors.

And btw, don't suggest seeing a movie as a first date. Not only does it generally not work, but even if it does, you don't get a chance to converse much.
i know, i can't help being needy. i've been single for a while and i know needyness is a turn off with girls. i just love being close to a girl and spending time with her. *sigh* :(
 

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tony-montana said:
...i know, i can't help being needy. i've been single for a while and i know needyness is a turn off with girls. i just love being close to a girl and spending time with her. *sigh* :(
Sounds as if you need to but more effort in other interests so that you can stop associating your happiness with the need to be with someone... Anyone....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm, yeah. how's this for a cancel excuse: "hey *** listen, i can't make it tonight, something just came up. my cousin needs to return a car she rented to perth and she dont know the way there and then we are staying up there with her friend for the night that she aint seen in ages... im really sorry :S"
 

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hmm, yeah. how's this for a cancel excuse: "hey *** listen, i can't make it tonight, something just came up. my cousin needs to return a car she rented to perth and she dont know the way there and then we are staying up there with her friend for the night that she aint seen in ages... im really sorry :S"
I don't know, sounds a bit flimsy and even ambiguous. Why not tell her that you don't feel right going through with it.
 

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i think i'm just gonna go see the movie on my own like i used to. getting a headache asking girls out.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't know, sounds a bit flimsy and even ambiguous. Why not tell her that you don't feel right going through with it.
good idea, i will just say that i don't feel comfortable seeing a married woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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