"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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date tomorrow...

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from a loud whistle my friend made, to now... a date. i am meeting her tomorrow after her work about 2pm. i'm thinking to go for a walk through shopping center then go catch a movie. if we do catch a movie, is it too soon to make moves cause she just split with her boyfriend christmas day?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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come on people i need some opinions it's tomorrow and i gotta hop off the pc soon. *panics*
 

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No Movie...

You want to get to know this chick... movie is ****ty to talk... just go for lunchtime drinks... maybe grab a late lunch too... how you going to run game on her and have her back at your place suckin your c0ck if you've got to talk over the flick?
 

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we've actually had a bit of a talk on the phone the other night and we got to know each other abit. and we are going for a walk before the movie to talk so we can get comfortable (which we are already i'd say) not even sure if we will go to movie cause i dunno if she'll hav money on her and i dont pay for chicks.
 

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what movie u goin to see bro?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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friend it is by the looks. just met with her, sat down where we first met and talked for about 40 minutes.. she got into the whole ex boyfriend thing alot and how she talks to this other guy she likes. i mean, it didn't bother me that she's not into me more than friends. she is young too and all i wanted was a fuk. but you can tell when someone likes you as a friend. the way they look at you, talk. i wasn't getting none of them signs. anyway, we enjoy talking together and it will stay that way for now.

time to look elsewhere!

p.s; fuk it's hard finding a LTR! >:/
 
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