from a loud whistle my friend made, to now... a date. i am meeting her tomorrow after her work about 2pm. i'm thinking to go for a walk through shopping center then go catch a movie. if we do catch a movie, is it too soon to make moves cause she just split with her boyfriend christmas day?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
date tomorrow...
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
No Movie...
You want to get to know this chick... movie is ****ty to talk... just go for lunchtime drinks... maybe grab a late lunch too... how you going to run game on her and have her back at your place suckin your c0ck if you've got to talk over the flick?
You want to get to know this chick... movie is ****ty to talk... just go for lunchtime drinks... maybe grab a late lunch too... how you going to run game on her and have her back at your place suckin your c0ck if you've got to talk over the flick?
we've actually had a bit of a talk on the phone the other night and we got to know each other abit. and we are going for a walk before the movie to talk so we can get comfortable (which we are already i'd say) not even sure if we will go to movie cause i dunno if she'll hav money on her and i dont pay for chicks.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
what movie u goin to see bro?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
friend it is by the looks. just met with her, sat down where we first met and talked for about 40 minutes.. she got into the whole ex boyfriend thing alot and how she talks to this other guy she likes. i mean, it didn't bother me that she's not into me more than friends. she is young too and all i wanted was a fuk. but you can tell when someone likes you as a friend. the way they look at you, talk. i wasn't getting none of them signs. anyway, we enjoy talking together and it will stay that way for now.
time to look elsewhere!
p.s; fuk it's hard finding a LTR! >:/
time to look elsewhere!
p.s; fuk it's hard finding a LTR! >:/