"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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date tomorrow...

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from a loud whistle my friend made, to now... a date. i am meeting her tomorrow after her work about 2pm. i'm thinking to go for a walk through shopping center then go catch a movie. if we do catch a movie, is it too soon to make moves cause she just split with her boyfriend christmas day?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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come on people i need some opinions it's tomorrow and i gotta hop off the pc soon. *panics*
 
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No Movie...

You want to get to know this chick... movie is ****ty to talk... just go for lunchtime drinks... maybe grab a late lunch too... how you going to run game on her and have her back at your place suckin your c0ck if you've got to talk over the flick?
 
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we've actually had a bit of a talk on the phone the other night and we got to know each other abit. and we are going for a walk before the movie to talk so we can get comfortable (which we are already i'd say) not even sure if we will go to movie cause i dunno if she'll hav money on her and i dont pay for chicks.
 
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what movie u goin to see bro?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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friend it is by the looks. just met with her, sat down where we first met and talked for about 40 minutes.. she got into the whole ex boyfriend thing alot and how she talks to this other guy she likes. i mean, it didn't bother me that she's not into me more than friends. she is young too and all i wanted was a fuk. but you can tell when someone likes you as a friend. the way they look at you, talk. i wasn't getting none of them signs. anyway, we enjoy talking together and it will stay that way for now.

time to look elsewhere!

p.s; fuk it's hard finding a LTR! >:/
 
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