Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Date today, what to do?

Mr.Suave

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First of all.. I wanna thanks SS for a LOT of things. But here I am again, back at ss and asking about a girl and I hate it.

Im supposed to go to meet-up a girl I met at a cooking lesson in about 8 hours today. Just a quick chat then ask her name. Then we chatted on facebook... I ask her to play the game "bakemesometime"?english is not my first language but you know what Im trying to do..

So she agreed then I setup a meet-up. The supposed date was canceled because she was busy. Told her its fine because its finals already and we could just resched. Message me after a couple days and asked me if we want to go friday but I have to finish a lot of stuffs on friday so it didnt happen.

Now the problem is, today, monday we were to now meet-up but the chat from her last night said that she would not bring baked goods because she doesnt feel like it. I replied saying "it would be better if you would bring goods" She replied enthusiastically about the meetup.. but then I asked her if she is serious about not bringing baked goods.. and then I only a get thumbs up icon reply from her

I know I shouldnt have asked the last question.. but come on.. thats what we agree upon why were meeting up.. I feeling kinda mehh about the date now..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr.Suave

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Welp, I receive a text right now from her saying sorry because she'd been busy she didnt bought the ingredients. So I guess ill go on with the date.

And yeah I obviously doesnt have any other girl going on right now thats why I act like this<
 

Çharismo

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If you are felling "meh" about the date than don't go.

She isn't obligated to bring you anything.

It's only the first date.

Relax, enjoy her company and just get to know her but if you don't want to go than don't go.

Ain't know thang but a chicken wang brah brah!!!
 
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