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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Date today, what to do?

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First of all.. I wanna thanks SS for a LOT of things. But here I am again, back at ss and asking about a girl and I hate it.

Im supposed to go to meet-up a girl I met at a cooking lesson in about 8 hours today. Just a quick chat then ask her name. Then we chatted on facebook... I ask her to play the game "bakemesometime"?english is not my first language but you know what Im trying to do..

So she agreed then I setup a meet-up. The supposed date was canceled because she was busy. Told her its fine because its finals already and we could just resched. Message me after a couple days and asked me if we want to go friday but I have to finish a lot of stuffs on friday so it didnt happen.

Now the problem is, today, monday we were to now meet-up but the chat from her last night said that she would not bring baked goods because she doesnt feel like it. I replied saying "it would be better if you would bring goods" She replied enthusiastically about the meetup.. but then I asked her if she is serious about not bringing baked goods.. and then I only a get thumbs up icon reply from her

I know I shouldnt have asked the last question.. but come on.. thats what we agree upon why were meeting up.. I feeling kinda mehh about the date now..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Welp, I receive a text right now from her saying sorry because she'd been busy she didnt bought the ingredients. So I guess ill go on with the date.

And yeah I obviously doesnt have any other girl going on right now thats why I act like this<
 
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If you are felling "meh" about the date than don't go.

She isn't obligated to bring you anything.

It's only the first date.

Relax, enjoy her company and just get to know her but if you don't want to go than don't go.

Ain't know thang but a chicken wang brah brah!!!
 
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