"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Date today, what to do?

Mr.Suave

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First of all.. I wanna thanks SS for a LOT of things. But here I am again, back at ss and asking about a girl and I hate it.

Im supposed to go to meet-up a girl I met at a cooking lesson in about 8 hours today. Just a quick chat then ask her name. Then we chatted on facebook... I ask her to play the game "bakemesometime"?english is not my first language but you know what Im trying to do..

So she agreed then I setup a meet-up. The supposed date was canceled because she was busy. Told her its fine because its finals already and we could just resched. Message me after a couple days and asked me if we want to go friday but I have to finish a lot of stuffs on friday so it didnt happen.

Now the problem is, today, monday we were to now meet-up but the chat from her last night said that she would not bring baked goods because she doesnt feel like it. I replied saying "it would be better if you would bring goods" She replied enthusiastically about the meetup.. but then I asked her if she is serious about not bringing baked goods.. and then I only a get thumbs up icon reply from her

I know I shouldnt have asked the last question.. but come on.. thats what we agree upon why were meeting up.. I feeling kinda mehh about the date now..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mr.Suave

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Welp, I receive a text right now from her saying sorry because she'd been busy she didnt bought the ingredients. So I guess ill go on with the date.

And yeah I obviously doesnt have any other girl going on right now thats why I act like this<
 

Çharismo

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If you are felling "meh" about the date than don't go.

She isn't obligated to bring you anything.

It's only the first date.

Relax, enjoy her company and just get to know her but if you don't want to go than don't go.

Ain't know thang but a chicken wang brah brah!!!
 
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