"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Been out in the field lately, Got one F close which would make it my first hispanic chick I ever been with (the lame part is I'm like 8 years behind my friends in terms of hispanics.. well the non AFCs) but I got the f close on the saturday after I met her..

Now on the other hand HB burma...shes hot.. but man we talked about some weird topics on the date.. and she was sometimes cool laying on the grass with me in my arms.. but then when I tried to escalate to make out she told me we shouldnt kiss without a reason.. wtf? I guess that is girl for saying "Im a cold *****".. and the end of the date was alright just chilling but then I told her i had to take her back home cause I had some matters to attend to.

On the way back I take a different freeway route: she got confused and thought I was driving her out of town to a forest.. she got scared, maybe that I was gonna do something... that was such an insult I just stopped talking to her after that. she was like dont u have anything to talk about? guess she doesnt like silence so much

-- So i drive her to the subway, a station closer to her house.. on the way back she says u can can just drop me off at any station even this one (that was a lot farther).. gets out of car before I turned it off.. walk her to elevator.. it opens as we get there (ghosts? ha) she walks in.. I make the decision to not walk in with her.. she giggles and waves.. I just say bye and walk off.. not even a hug.. she said burmese people dont hug much earlier.. ya right...
Guys what you think of the situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phyzzle

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Burmese as in "from Burma"?

Dude, for a guy who lives in Taiwan and the US, you don't have much appreciation of different cultures.

I've had Asian women not hug me on the 1st date, then we bang later.

Don't be fooled by the desperate/starving ultra-friendly SE Asian girls you meet: most of the society is directed against displays of physical affection. You could have been more patient.
 
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hmm -- well there is always next time I suppose.. I'm just trying to get the action before I get back to Taiwan.. I dont believe in the asian conservative thing that much but I will take that to mind.. thanks for your help
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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