"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Been out in the field lately, Got one F close which would make it my first hispanic chick I ever been with (the lame part is I'm like 8 years behind my friends in terms of hispanics.. well the non AFCs) but I got the f close on the saturday after I met her..

Now on the other hand HB burma...shes hot.. but man we talked about some weird topics on the date.. and she was sometimes cool laying on the grass with me in my arms.. but then when I tried to escalate to make out she told me we shouldnt kiss without a reason.. wtf? I guess that is girl for saying "Im a cold *****".. and the end of the date was alright just chilling but then I told her i had to take her back home cause I had some matters to attend to.

On the way back I take a different freeway route: she got confused and thought I was driving her out of town to a forest.. she got scared, maybe that I was gonna do something... that was such an insult I just stopped talking to her after that. she was like dont u have anything to talk about? guess she doesnt like silence so much

-- So i drive her to the subway, a station closer to her house.. on the way back she says u can can just drop me off at any station even this one (that was a lot farther).. gets out of car before I turned it off.. walk her to elevator.. it opens as we get there (ghosts? ha) she walks in.. I make the decision to not walk in with her.. she giggles and waves.. I just say bye and walk off.. not even a hug.. she said burmese people dont hug much earlier.. ya right...
Guys what you think of the situation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Phyzzle

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Burmese as in "from Burma"?

Dude, for a guy who lives in Taiwan and the US, you don't have much appreciation of different cultures.

I've had Asian women not hug me on the 1st date, then we bang later.

Don't be fooled by the desperate/starving ultra-friendly SE Asian girls you meet: most of the society is directed against displays of physical affection. You could have been more patient.
 
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hmm -- well there is always next time I suppose.. I'm just trying to get the action before I get back to Taiwan.. I dont believe in the asian conservative thing that much but I will take that to mind.. thanks for your help
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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