"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Been out in the field lately, Got one F close which would make it my first hispanic chick I ever been with (the lame part is I'm like 8 years behind my friends in terms of hispanics.. well the non AFCs) but I got the f close on the saturday after I met her..

Now on the other hand HB burma...shes hot.. but man we talked about some weird topics on the date.. and she was sometimes cool laying on the grass with me in my arms.. but then when I tried to escalate to make out she told me we shouldnt kiss without a reason.. wtf? I guess that is girl for saying "Im a cold *****".. and the end of the date was alright just chilling but then I told her i had to take her back home cause I had some matters to attend to.

On the way back I take a different freeway route: she got confused and thought I was driving her out of town to a forest.. she got scared, maybe that I was gonna do something... that was such an insult I just stopped talking to her after that. she was like dont u have anything to talk about? guess she doesnt like silence so much

-- So i drive her to the subway, a station closer to her house.. on the way back she says u can can just drop me off at any station even this one (that was a lot farther).. gets out of car before I turned it off.. walk her to elevator.. it opens as we get there (ghosts? ha) she walks in.. I make the decision to not walk in with her.. she giggles and waves.. I just say bye and walk off.. not even a hug.. she said burmese people dont hug much earlier.. ya right...
Guys what you think of the situation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Burmese as in "from Burma"?

Dude, for a guy who lives in Taiwan and the US, you don't have much appreciation of different cultures.

I've had Asian women not hug me on the 1st date, then we bang later.

Don't be fooled by the desperate/starving ultra-friendly SE Asian girls you meet: most of the society is directed against displays of physical affection. You could have been more patient.
 
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hmm -- well there is always next time I suppose.. I'm just trying to get the action before I get back to Taiwan.. I dont believe in the asian conservative thing that much but I will take that to mind.. thanks for your help
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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