"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Date" Report

TekPh0bia

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Well, if you read my last "date report" you know that it was rather bad.

I met another girl on a singles site and we chatted for a while. I got her number in a few minutes, but haven't had time to call her.

I ran my car into a tree (long story, tree fell in front of me), so I wanted to obliterate the day with some alcohol. Well, I was chatting with her during this plan and got way too intimate. I re-read my messages the day after and was rather shocked at what I said..heh. Anyways, we decided to meet eacother.

Driving down to her town, I pick her up at Applebee's. At this point, I was a little nervous and could feel the tiny beads of sweat accumulating on my forehead. I used my humor to tone things down a bit. We drove around aimlessly for a little bit, looking for a coffee shop. Eventually, we found one. We both got a mocha and proceeded to sit down.

For some reason, when you think of *what* to say, you end up not saying much. So, I just stopped thinking and started talking.

The vibe in the coffee shop wasn't so hot, so I looked at her..."Wanna go for a drive?" She agreed.

We drove around for an hour or so...making conversation, laughing, etc. It was fun to say the least.

She was wide awake and we decided it would be fun to go bowling. After another hour of trying to find the damn bowling alley..we eventually arrive. Walk inside and it looks like all the lanes are taken. The guy helping us was rather funny. He kept telling us, "I'm a paranoid employee! Don't look at me!" So, I covered my eyes and asked him for two adults. He responded by saying that all the lanes are taken and we could come back for cosmic bowling. Well, that was an hour away, so that plan was scrapped.

Something funny happened, however. When we walked in, he was helping this one girl. When I walked up to counter, he stopped talking to her and started helping me. The other girl said, "So, you just move onto another customer without finishing?" He goes back to her side, points to me and says, "well...he's better looking." That was a rather nice confidence boost. I looked at her and she had that shocked, funny look on her face..."I can't believe he just said that!!" I smiled at her and continued on...

Anyways, long story short...the "date" went well and she wants to come up to my crib for dinner/movie. I think she even suggested it. However, I have a different plan in mind....a drive to the coast at night!

Perhaps I'm getting back into my groove...

TP out...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TekPh0bia said:
Anyways, long story short...the "date" went well and she wants to come up to my crib for dinner/movie. I think she even suggested it. However, I have a different plan in mind....a drive to the coast at night!

Perhaps I'm getting back into my groove...TP out...
Screeeeeeeeech!!!! Hold on kid - hit the brakes and quit driving!!!! She wants to come to your place but you are going tio change plans and take a drive!!!!! Somebody take the car keys away from this guy!!!!:rolleyes:

What are you going to do?? ....drive the car into the the pacific ocean and drown her!!!:rolleyes: Have you been listening to Eminem music - "Dear Stan"???:rolleyes:
 
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Anyways, long story short...the "date" went well and she wants to come up to my crib for dinner/movie. I think she even suggested it. However, I have a different plan in mind....a drive to the coast at night!

Like the poster above said,LET HER COME OVER! Dude your on fire,why cool yourself down?
 

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Last Man Standing said:
:whistle: Screeeeeeeeech!!!! Hold on kid - hit the brakes and quit driving!!!! She wants to come to your place but you are going tio change plans and take a drive!!!!! Somebody take the car keys away from this guy!!!!:rolleyes:

What are you going to do?? ....drive the car into the the pacific ocean and drown her!!!:rolleyes: Have you been listening to Eminem music - "Dear Stan"???:rolleyes:

If u want to be a pathetic loser and virgin all your life listen to this guy....

Lets put out a petition to ban this guy.... I don't know how this guy has lasted on this site.....

He hasn't even posted a thread and said anything useful about anything...


Any sane person will agree with me on this . This guys posts are pathetic. Remember I will always call it like I see it...... And everyone else here should do the same.
 
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Nasman said:
If u want to be a pathetic loser and virgin all your life listen to this guy....

Lets put out a petition to ban this guy.... I don't know how this guy has lasted on this site.....

He hasn't even posted a thread and said anything useful about anything...


Any sane person will agree with me on this . This guys posts are pathetic. Remember I will always call it like I see it...... And everyone else here should do the same.
I love you too Bro!! (LMS wipes tears from his eyes so that his blur vision doesn't interfere with his typing)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TekPh0bia said:
Well, if you read my last "date report" you know that it was rather bad.

I met another girl on a singles site and we chatted for a while. I got her number in a few minutes, but haven't had time to call her.

I ran my car into a tree (long story, tree fell in front of me), so I wanted to obliterate the day with some alcohol. Well, I was chatting with her during this plan and got way too intimate. I re-read my messages the day after and was rather shocked at what I said..heh. Anyways, we decided to meet eacother.

Driving down to her town, I pick her up at Applebee's. At this point, I was a little nervous and could feel the tiny beads of sweat accumulating on my forehead. I used my humor to tone things down a bit. We drove around aimlessly for a little bit, looking for a coffee shop. Eventually, we found one. We both got a mocha and proceeded to sit down.

For some reason, when you think of *what* to say, you end up not saying much. So, I just stopped thinking and started talking.

The vibe in the coffee shop wasn't so hot, so I looked at her..."Wanna go for a drive?" She agreed.

We drove around for an hour or so...making conversation, laughing, etc. It was fun to say the least.

She was wide awake and we decided it would be fun to go bowling. After another hour of trying to find the damn bowling alley..we eventually arrive. Walk inside and it looks like all the lanes are taken. The guy helping us was rather funny. He kept telling us, "I'm a paranoid employee! Don't look at me!" So, I covered my eyes and asked him for two adults. He responded by saying that all the lanes are taken and we could come back for cosmic bowling. Well, that was an hour away, so that plan was scrapped.

Something funny happened, however. When we walked in, he was helping this one girl. When I walked up to counter, he stopped talking to her and started helping me. The other girl said, "So, you just move onto another customer without finishing?" He goes back to her side, points to me and says, "well...he's better looking." That was a rather nice confidence boost. I looked at her and she had that shocked, funny look on her face..."I can't believe he just said that!!" I smiled at her and continued on...

Anyways, long story short...the "date" went well and she wants to come up to my crib for dinner/movie. I think she even suggested it. However, I have a different plan in mind....a drive to the coast at night!

Perhaps I'm getting back into my groove...

TP out...
I like people posting real life situations.... Good job kid.....

Just one question what is your goal in this relationship. You say that she wants to come over your house.

You want to drive the coast at night????


What are ur goals
If its marriage- take her 2 drive the coast at night.
If it is GF- You can do either one.
If it is a lay- Have her come to your house...


If you bring her back to your place you have a much better shot of fvcking that pvssy. If u show your mr. romantic and take her down to the coast u may lose some point for fvcking her *****,


Well anyway nice post. Let me know if u get laid...
 
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