"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bluemanson

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hi

i just got a little doubt but need more of a come back line,

i asked this girl out, but for some weird reason i had a feeling like she going to say no before i asked but anyway here how the conversation went.

She was laughing her ass off before i said this

Me: you know what i think would a good idea is that we and you go out for sushi tuesday nite"

her : I dont think that would be a good idea

Me: atleast you will be with great company.

Her: maybe we will see.

she changes the subject.


now im not worried if she said yes or no but i was more like kinda caught off guard.

what could i have said to change the conversation around or hit her with a come back line that is C&F when she said "I dont think that would be a good idea"

Thanks guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ease

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hmm something like

'oh come on you were clearly dying for me to ask you out'

takes the pressure off you during rejection and is funny.


But to clarify, at this point the correct thing to do is continue gaming and then try again later right?

as in, more conversation and then 'so ok lets go for sushi'.

Change her mood not her mind
 

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She's just not that into you. Move on. Maybe come back later, but move on for now.

And next time, do it the right way. Tell her what you are doing and tell her she should come along. And you had better like sushi and not be wanting to go there just to make her happy. Do what is fun for you and tell her she should join you.
 

bluemanson

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Bible_Belt said:
She's just not that into you. Move on. Maybe come back later, but move on for now.

And next time, do it the right way. Tell her what you are doing and tell her she should come along. And you had better like sushi and not be wanting to go there just to make her happy. Do what is fun for you and tell her she should join you.


Well it would be stupid to take her to a place where i wouldnt go myself, that would just wouldnt be right now would it, anyway, im not giving this girl much thort but i was thinking maybe next time if i were in a situation like this then how would il approach it or give a good answer
 

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Ease i understand what you saying and i like your quote, Change her mood not her mind
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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