“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bluemanson

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hi

i just got a little doubt but need more of a come back line,

i asked this girl out, but for some weird reason i had a feeling like she going to say no before i asked but anyway here how the conversation went.

She was laughing her ass off before i said this

Me: you know what i think would a good idea is that we and you go out for sushi tuesday nite"

her : I dont think that would be a good idea

Me: atleast you will be with great company.

Her: maybe we will see.

she changes the subject.


now im not worried if she said yes or no but i was more like kinda caught off guard.

what could i have said to change the conversation around or hit her with a come back line that is C&F when she said "I dont think that would be a good idea"

Thanks guys
 

Ease

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hmm something like

'oh come on you were clearly dying for me to ask you out'

takes the pressure off you during rejection and is funny.


But to clarify, at this point the correct thing to do is continue gaming and then try again later right?

as in, more conversation and then 'so ok lets go for sushi'.

Change her mood not her mind
 

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She's just not that into you. Move on. Maybe come back later, but move on for now.

And next time, do it the right way. Tell her what you are doing and tell her she should come along. And you had better like sushi and not be wanting to go there just to make her happy. Do what is fun for you and tell her she should join you.
 

bluemanson

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Bible_Belt said:
She's just not that into you. Move on. Maybe come back later, but move on for now.

And next time, do it the right way. Tell her what you are doing and tell her she should come along. And you had better like sushi and not be wanting to go there just to make her happy. Do what is fun for you and tell her she should join you.


Well it would be stupid to take her to a place where i wouldnt go myself, that would just wouldnt be right now would it, anyway, im not giving this girl much thort but i was thinking maybe next time if i were in a situation like this then how would il approach it or give a good answer
 

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Ease i understand what you saying and i like your quote, Change her mood not her mind
 
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