selfmademob
Banned
I met this chick on MYspace, I am going to go out with her. But she said she is going to drive and meet me there. Should I be picking her up? help me out here.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Date question
- Thread starter selfmademob
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Tell her that's fine, because you have other stuff to do after the date. Keep it light and end it early. She's probably been trapped in bad first dates before by not driving.
The best is if she meets you at your house, and you go out together. Then, when the date is over, she has to go back to your house to get her car, or drop you off, depending on who's driving. Then, you can ask her to look at your stamp collection or whatever is in your house.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Your concern should not be if she should meet you there, or you should pick her up, it should be what you will do once, and if, she actually shows up and you meet her, to create and amplify attraction to the point where these things are just formalities.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If you have never met her, I would not recommend to drive her. Have her meet you at the location to make sure she's cool. I wouldn't want a weirdo in my car if she is one! Im not saying she is but myspace can have some freaky people...