selfmademob
Banned
I met this chick on MYspace, I am going to go out with her. But she said she is going to drive and meet me there. Should I be picking her up? help me out here.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Date question
- Thread starter selfmademob
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Tell her that's fine, because you have other stuff to do after the date. Keep it light and end it early. She's probably been trapped in bad first dates before by not driving.
The best is if she meets you at your house, and you go out together. Then, when the date is over, she has to go back to your house to get her car, or drop you off, depending on who's driving. Then, you can ask her to look at your stamp collection or whatever is in your house.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Your concern should not be if she should meet you there, or you should pick her up, it should be what you will do once, and if, she actually shows up and you meet her, to create and amplify attraction to the point where these things are just formalities.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you have never met her, I would not recommend to drive her. Have her meet you at the location to make sure she's cool. I wouldn't want a weirdo in my car if she is one! Im not saying she is but myspace can have some freaky people...