"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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date one week in advance

pyros

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I met this 19 years old last Saturday night. She seemed interested.

Monday SHE texted me without me initiating. We talked blah blah, and I asked her how her schedule looked like for the end of the week. She said she works and studies but she's free on Sundays. I have a busy life too so I told her that we'll meet next Sunday, she agreed and seemed happy.
I did not tell her the time or place cause really there is one whole week in between.

should I shoot her one or two texts during this week? I dont think going completely silent until Saturday or when I text her to tell her the details is good, cause if I go the whole week without even saying hi to her, she may think I dont have real interest in meeting up with her. Besides, all these young chicks really like to text, and really like guys they like to text them.


So, the date is suposed to happen next Sunday.
Do I text her once or twice during this week? like maybe on Thursday and then on Friday telling her the place and time?

Thoughts?
 

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Jetleg

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Text her 3 days in advance, say the place and time and thats it. Nothing than that, its depends how you guys set the date.

For example if she said she is free on sunday, but you didn't agree on any kind of activity (eating or whatever) she will more likey to flake.
 

Leaf

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Even better, call her regarding the above aforementioned intentions.
 

Fitters

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Reason why I hate making dates I'm advance. More room for error & flaking.
Next time , just say okay without asking her out then near Sunday ( say Friday ) ask her what she is doing for the weekend.
 
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