"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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date one week in advance

pyros

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I met this 19 years old last Saturday night. She seemed interested.

Monday SHE texted me without me initiating. We talked blah blah, and I asked her how her schedule looked like for the end of the week. She said she works and studies but she's free on Sundays. I have a busy life too so I told her that we'll meet next Sunday, she agreed and seemed happy.
I did not tell her the time or place cause really there is one whole week in between.

should I shoot her one or two texts during this week? I dont think going completely silent until Saturday or when I text her to tell her the details is good, cause if I go the whole week without even saying hi to her, she may think I dont have real interest in meeting up with her. Besides, all these young chicks really like to text, and really like guys they like to text them.


So, the date is suposed to happen next Sunday.
Do I text her once or twice during this week? like maybe on Thursday and then on Friday telling her the place and time?

Thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jetleg

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Text her 3 days in advance, say the place and time and thats it. Nothing than that, its depends how you guys set the date.

For example if she said she is free on sunday, but you didn't agree on any kind of activity (eating or whatever) she will more likey to flake.
 

Leaf

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Even better, call her regarding the above aforementioned intentions.
 

Fitters

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Reason why I hate making dates I'm advance. More room for error & flaking.
Next time , just say okay without asking her out then near Sunday ( say Friday ) ask her what she is doing for the weekend.
 
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