"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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date one week in advance

pyros

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I met this 19 years old last Saturday night. She seemed interested.

Monday SHE texted me without me initiating. We talked blah blah, and I asked her how her schedule looked like for the end of the week. She said she works and studies but she's free on Sundays. I have a busy life too so I told her that we'll meet next Sunday, she agreed and seemed happy.
I did not tell her the time or place cause really there is one whole week in between.

should I shoot her one or two texts during this week? I dont think going completely silent until Saturday or when I text her to tell her the details is good, cause if I go the whole week without even saying hi to her, she may think I dont have real interest in meeting up with her. Besides, all these young chicks really like to text, and really like guys they like to text them.


So, the date is suposed to happen next Sunday.
Do I text her once or twice during this week? like maybe on Thursday and then on Friday telling her the place and time?

Thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jetleg

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Text her 3 days in advance, say the place and time and thats it. Nothing than that, its depends how you guys set the date.

For example if she said she is free on sunday, but you didn't agree on any kind of activity (eating or whatever) she will more likey to flake.
 

Leaf

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Even better, call her regarding the above aforementioned intentions.
 

Fitters

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Reason why I hate making dates I'm advance. More room for error & flaking.
Next time , just say okay without asking her out then near Sunday ( say Friday ) ask her what she is doing for the weekend.
 
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