"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Date night … she suggested coming over and watching a movie. Am in her frame ?

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Lover_boy said:
So I made plans on Tuesday to hang out with this chick I’ve been dating to go out dancing on Saturday night. She said she’d be down but this morning she sends me a text that she’s in the mood to disconnect and relax and do something chill.
She said maybe “I can come over and we can watch a movie and chill” and that she’s in the mood to smoke and wine down.

I was In the mood for dancing, having fun and getting drunk but if she’s suggesting these plans. If I follow through with them does that mean I’m following her frame ? We haven’t kissed yet so…

thoughts ?
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Don't overthink it. She's making an excuse to be alone with you at your place. Typically women who want you will make things easy for the two of you to get physical. She's arranging it so the setting is right for things to move forward physically.

Don't push for sex. Just notice if she starts slowly inching closer to you during the movie. If she does you can reciprocate and move a little closer. Then you get her so hot and bothered that she either jumps on you or goes home so worked up that the next time she sees you she'll jump you. Have fun!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lover_boy said:
So I made plans on Tuesday to hang out with this chick I’ve been dating to go out dancing on Saturday night. She said she’d be down but this morning she sends me a text that she’s in the mood to disconnect and relax and do something chill.
She said maybe “I can come over and we can watch a movie and chill” and that she’s in the mood to smoke and wine down.

I was In the mood for dancing, having fun and getting drunk but if she’s suggesting these plans. If I follow through with them does that mean I’m following her frame ? We haven’t kissed yet so…

thoughts ?
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She basically wants to fvck and you are worried about losing frame. Good God...now I see why some people struggle with women so much on this forum...

FYI anytime a woman invites you over to her place and suggests she comes over to yours and watch a movie and drink it's a sign she is telling you she is DTF with almost no exceptions.

Would you prefer to dance or get drunk or fvck the sh!t of her and blast a load down her throat?
 
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Don't overthink it. She's making an excuse to be alone with you at your place. Typically women who want you will make things easy for the two of you to get physical. She's arranging it so the setting is right for things to move forward physically.

Don't push for sex. Just notice if she starts slowly inching closer to you during the movie. If she does you can reciprocate and move a little closer. Then you get her so hot and bothered that she either jumps on you or goes home so worked up that the next time she sees you she'll jump you. Have fun!
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I did this last night actually...she snuggled up to me while the movie was on and I ran my fingers through her hair, kept gently running my hand up and down her arm, her side, her butt, etc...

At the end of the movie she basically jumped me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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