"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Whatsup everyone,

I met a girl who has a good deal of interest in me named Sue, who i'd rate as a hb 8. I just got her number the other day and now im thinking about the next step which is the date. Any good first date Ideas other than a movie or a walk around the mall? I ask this question because im 18 and shes 16 and it seems like those are the only two options open for kids our age and I dont like watching movies or walking around a mall.

Im going to read the dj bible for ideas but I want to see other peoples' ideas too.

Im going to keep yall posted about the first date. My goal is to just kiss her anything beyond that is just a bonus to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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take her to the zoo. chicks love animals. ANd seeing cute animals brings their guard down and makes them more comfortable. I've never had a bad date using the zoo as a venue. Its free too.
 
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Originally posted by diablo
For your first date, you should bring her to your computer and both of you learn to use the "search" button together. If you'll notice, this question has been asked over 300 times. Searching for "date" in the thread titles has 709 hits. Here, why don't you try?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
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lol....:p Getting a little frustrated there? hehe... yeah i agree... everywhere i look i see "date ideas" or " dates?" etc etc... STICK TO ONE THREAD PLEASE!

Otherwise...


skinnydart said:

zoos aren't free
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That depends where u are and WHAT zoo u go to... some zoo's ARE free. ;)

Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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