"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Date Ideas

JohnElDonJuan

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Whatsup everyone,

I met a girl who has a good deal of interest in me named Sue, who i'd rate as a hb 8. I just got her number the other day and now im thinking about the next step which is the date. Any good first date Ideas other than a movie or a walk around the mall? I ask this question because im 18 and shes 16 and it seems like those are the only two options open for kids our age and I dont like watching movies or walking around a mall.

Im going to read the dj bible for ideas but I want to see other peoples' ideas too.

Im going to keep yall posted about the first date. My goal is to just kiss her anything beyond that is just a bonus to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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majumbo

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take her to the zoo. chicks love animals. ANd seeing cute animals brings their guard down and makes them more comfortable. I've never had a bad date using the zoo as a venue. Its free too.
 

Climax

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Originally posted by diablo
For your first date, you should bring her to your computer and both of you learn to use the "search" button together. If you'll notice, this question has been asked over 300 times. Searching for "date" in the thread titles has 709 hits. Here, why don't you try?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
lol....:p Getting a little frustrated there? hehe... yeah i agree... everywhere i look i see "date ideas" or " dates?" etc etc... STICK TO ONE THREAD PLEASE!

Otherwise...


skinnydart said:

zoos aren't free
That depends where u are and WHAT zoo u go to... some zoo's ARE free. ;)

Laterz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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