"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whatsup everyone,

I met a girl who has a good deal of interest in me named Sue, who i'd rate as a hb 8. I just got her number the other day and now im thinking about the next step which is the date. Any good first date Ideas other than a movie or a walk around the mall? I ask this question because im 18 and shes 16 and it seems like those are the only two options open for kids our age and I dont like watching movies or walking around a mall.

Im going to read the dj bible for ideas but I want to see other peoples' ideas too.

Im going to keep yall posted about the first date. My goal is to just kiss her anything beyond that is just a bonus to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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take her to the zoo. chicks love animals. ANd seeing cute animals brings their guard down and makes them more comfortable. I've never had a bad date using the zoo as a venue. Its free too.
 
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Originally posted by diablo
For your first date, you should bring her to your computer and both of you learn to use the "search" button together. If you'll notice, this question has been asked over 300 times. Searching for "date" in the thread titles has 709 hits. Here, why don't you try?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
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lol....:p Getting a little frustrated there? hehe... yeah i agree... everywhere i look i see "date ideas" or " dates?" etc etc... STICK TO ONE THREAD PLEASE!

Otherwise...


skinnydart said:

zoos aren't free
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That depends where u are and WHAT zoo u go to... some zoo's ARE free. ;)

Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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