"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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skinnydart

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Everybody else is going to say to do a search, but there hasn't been one in a while so I'll try to get some ideas in before...

- ice skating
- bowling
- hiking (great place for kino when at the top)
- sking - perfect combination of action (the downhill part) and cuddling and talking (on the way up)
- unique resturaunts, (like where I live, there's this old depot that they turned into one, it's pretty cool, and not your average resturaunt.
- coffee at the college cafe (makes a great 1st date that almost always gets a yes answer too)
 

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mini golf

if she is adventerous then paint ball!

walk in the park

hell even hanging out at somebody's house

parties
 

diablo

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Originally posted by skinnydart
Everybody else is going to say to do a search, but there hasn't been one in a while so I'll try to get some ideas in before...
You're right about people saying 'search'. Since this same question has been asked over 300 times now, and there are 709 threads with "date" in the title, I'm highly dubious that there will be anything new brought up in this thread. :rolleyes:

Next time, search before you ask.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
 

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take your girl sledging down a massive hill, great fun!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by skinnydart
Everybody else is going to say to do a search, but there hasn't been one in a while so I'll try to get some ideas in before...

- ice skating
- bowling
- hiking (great place for kino when at the top)
- sking - perfect combination of action (the downhill part) and cuddling and talking (on the way up)
- unique resturaunts, (like where I live, there's this old depot that they turned into one, it's pretty cool, and not your average resturaunt.
- coffee at the college cafe (makes a great 1st date that almost always gets a yes answer too)
Awesome ideas, man. I'm definately gonna find out some good hiking places.
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
What are some GOOD date ideas..besides the boring "movie?"
how about telling your girl to get on sosuave and do a search for date ideas.

people are stupid
 

diablo

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
how about telling your girl to get on sosuave and do a search for date ideas.

people are stupid
Already recommended.

Originally posted by diablo
You're right about people saying 'search'. Since this same question has been asked over 300 times now, and there are 709 threads with "date" in the title, I'm highly dubious that there will be anything new brought up in this thread. :rolleyes:

Next time, search before you ask.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
Actually, the exact thing you suggest was said in a different thread, about 5 down from this one, with the exact same name. I mean, it's one thing to not search... but to not see that someone else has the exact same titled thread as the one you're making, on the same page?! :rolleyes:

Originally posted by diablo
For your first date, you should bring her to your computer and both of you learn to use the "search" button together. If you'll notice, this question has been asked over 300 times. Searching for "date" in the thread titles has 709 hits. Here, why don't you try?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
 

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sometimes i like to settle in to the movie cause, who the hell watches the movie anyways.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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