WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
What are some GOOD date ideas..besides the boring "movie?"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You're right about people saying 'search'. Since this same question has been asked over 300 times now, and there are 709 threads with "date" in the title, I'm highly dubious that there will be anything new brought up in this thread.Originally posted by skinnydart
Everybody else is going to say to do a search, but there hasn't been one in a while so I'll try to get some ideas in before...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Awesome ideas, man. I'm definately gonna find out some good hiking places.Originally posted by skinnydart
Everybody else is going to say to do a search, but there hasn't been one in a while so I'll try to get some ideas in before...
- ice skating
- bowling
- hiking (great place for kino when at the top)
- sking - perfect combination of action (the downhill part) and cuddling and talking (on the way up)
- unique resturaunts, (like where I live, there's this old depot that they turned into one, it's pretty cool, and not your average resturaunt.
- coffee at the college cafe (makes a great 1st date that almost always gets a yes answer too)
how about telling your girl to get on sosuave and do a search for date ideas.Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
What are some GOOD date ideas..besides the boring "movie?"
Already recommended.Originally posted by DeathDealer
how about telling your girl to get on sosuave and do a search for date ideas.
people are stupid
Actually, the exact thing you suggest was said in a different thread, about 5 down from this one, with the exact same name. I mean, it's one thing to not search... but to not see that someone else has the exact same titled thread as the one you're making, on the same page?!Originally posted by diablo
You're right about people saying 'search'. Since this same question has been asked over 300 times now, and there are 709 threads with "date" in the title, I'm highly dubious that there will be anything new brought up in this thread.
Next time, search before you ask.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
Originally posted by diablo
For your first date, you should bring her to your computer and both of you learn to use the "search" button together. If you'll notice, this question has been asked over 300 times. Searching for "date" in the thread titles has 709 hits. Here, why don't you try?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=27400&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.