"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Date ideas
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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you are 18......worry less about dates and focus on hooking up
that means, your dates should mostly be in isolation (your place, her place, car, back seat of the movies, motel room), and bring alcohol in because girls your age love to drink.
girls dont wanna bullshyt around - they are horny and wanna get laid, and they want a MAN to give them the best sex ever........why don't you read up on this site before asking any more stupid questions
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
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inzone50 said:post them in here
why dont u ****in use the search button instead of making guys do the work for you
Serialized3
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Rent a nice car if you don't have one already. BMW or better.
Take her to the fanciest resturant you can afford. The more you spend on her, the better she is going to like you.
After that, take her on your yacht and cruise around for awhile. If you don't have a yacht, I feel sorry for you.
Don't get physical! Nothing turns a woman off more than a man that shows his sexual side. Be an enigma.
Serialized3
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fuckin'inzone50 said:What things will help bring us together...bond...share interests.
Gangster Of Love
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inzone50 said:post them in here
No do a ****in search or get out. I tell you what, let me get together with the 19 year old, and she can tell you all about how creative with my "date" ideas I am. After all, if you can't come up with anything to do with her, she will already think you are too boring.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Gangster Of Love
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Francisco d'Anconia
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Gangster Of Love
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah, but why can't you just post 'em here. Why are you so lazy to help a brotha out?
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I really don't know what a 19 year old girl would want in an 18 year old boy. She should be years more mature than he is. Just shows you how f**** up most of America is these days.
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sparky0000 said:Dude, if you are dating a 19 year old you should be at least 40. That was about like when my Daddy was dating my Mommy. She had class and was beautiful (hence the reason she didn't want a pimply teenager). My daddy had little outer beauty and even less inner beauty. However, he did know just about every local politician in town. That always helps.
I really don't know what a 19 year old girl would want in an 18 year old boy. She should be years more mature than he is. Just shows you how f**** up most of America is these days.
look at this guy's threads......no way he is serious (see luke skywalker type trolling)
y ahochu v rasiyu poyehat obratno!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Should 18-25 year olds guys be dating 9-12.5 year old girls? if girls 19 should date guys at least 40? It may not be illegal in your neck of the woods for 18-25 year olds to date kids, but it is illegal here. Stay in the Ukraine. You belong there.
can you post anything not Anti-American or Pro- Eastern Europe? Why are you here? There are probably tons of Eastern European forums for you to join. And if the girls are so easy to talk to ,date and bed, how do you find time to come here?
Francisco d'Anconia
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Some people can get all the help in the world and it still won't do them any good.Gangster Of Love said:Yeah, but why can't you just post 'em here. Why are you so lazy to help a brotha out?