"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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inzone50

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What are good date ideas?

We mostly go to the movies...or the theater to see a play.

What things will help bring us together...bond...share interests.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IceCream

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Miniature Golfing, ice skating, biking (maybe around the beach), the beach... anything that deals with 1 on 1 sports.
 
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are u serious about not knowing where to go hang out with a girl?

you are 18......worry less about dates and focus on hooking up

that means, your dates should mostly be in isolation (your place, her place, car, back seat of the movies, motel room), and bring alcohol in because girls your age love to drink.

girls dont wanna bullshyt around - they are horny and wanna get laid, and they want a MAN to give them the best sex ever........why don't you read up on this site before asking any more stupid questions
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum, there are entire threads listing dating suggestions.
 

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Well, first of all dont forget to bring flowers and chocolate. Women love that stuff. The more expensive, the better.

Rent a nice car if you don't have one already. BMW or better.

Take her to the fanciest resturant you can afford. The more you spend on her, the better she is going to like you.

After that, take her on your yacht and cruise around for awhile. If you don't have a yacht, I feel sorry for you.

Don't get physical! Nothing turns a woman off more than a man that shows his sexual side. Be an enigma.
 

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inzone50 said:
post them in here

No do a ****in search or get out. I tell you what, let me get together with the 19 year old, and she can tell you all about how creative with my "date" ideas I am. After all, if you can't come up with anything to do with her, she will already think you are too boring.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BORING BORING BORING BORING. Clueless!!!!!
 

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Dude, if you are dating a 19 year old you should be at least 40. That was about like when my Daddy was dating my Mommy. She had class and was beautiful (hence the reason she didn't want a pimply teenager). My daddy had little outer beauty and even less inner beauty. However, he did know just about every local politician in town. That always helps.

I really don't know what a 19 year old girl would want in an 18 year old boy. She should be years more mature than he is. Just shows you how f**** up most of America is these days.
 
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sparky0000 said:
Dude, if you are dating a 19 year old you should be at least 40. That was about like when my Daddy was dating my Mommy. She had class and was beautiful (hence the reason she didn't want a pimply teenager). My daddy had little outer beauty and even less inner beauty. However, he did know just about every local politician in town. That always helps.

I really don't know what a 19 year old girl would want in an 18 year old boy. She should be years more mature than he is. Just shows you how f**** up most of America is these days.

look at this guy's threads......no way he is serious (see luke skywalker type trolling)

y ahochu v rasiyu poyehat obratno!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ricorico

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So Sparky,

Should 18-25 year olds guys be dating 9-12.5 year old girls? if girls 19 should date guys at least 40? It may not be illegal in your neck of the woods for 18-25 year olds to date kids, but it is illegal here. Stay in the Ukraine. You belong there.
can you post anything not Anti-American or Pro- Eastern Europe? Why are you here? There are probably tons of Eastern European forums for you to join. And if the girls are so easy to talk to ,date and bed, how do you find time to come here?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gangster Of Love said:
Yeah, but why can't you just post 'em here. Why are you so lazy to help a brotha out?
Some people can get all the help in the world and it still won't do them any good.
 
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