"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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inzone50

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What are good date ideas?

We mostly go to the movies...or the theater to see a play.

What things will help bring us together...bond...share interests.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IceCream

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Miniature Golfing, ice skating, biking (maybe around the beach), the beach... anything that deals with 1 on 1 sports.
 
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are u serious about not knowing where to go hang out with a girl?

you are 18......worry less about dates and focus on hooking up

that means, your dates should mostly be in isolation (your place, her place, car, back seat of the movies, motel room), and bring alcohol in because girls your age love to drink.

girls dont wanna bullshyt around - they are horny and wanna get laid, and they want a MAN to give them the best sex ever........why don't you read up on this site before asking any more stupid questions
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the forum, there are entire threads listing dating suggestions.
 

Serialized3

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Well, first of all dont forget to bring flowers and chocolate. Women love that stuff. The more expensive, the better.

Rent a nice car if you don't have one already. BMW or better.

Take her to the fanciest resturant you can afford. The more you spend on her, the better she is going to like you.

After that, take her on your yacht and cruise around for awhile. If you don't have a yacht, I feel sorry for you.

Don't get physical! Nothing turns a woman off more than a man that shows his sexual side. Be an enigma.
 

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inzone50 said:
post them in here

No do a ****in search or get out. I tell you what, let me get together with the 19 year old, and she can tell you all about how creative with my "date" ideas I am. After all, if you can't come up with anything to do with her, she will already think you are too boring.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gangster Of Love

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BORING BORING BORING BORING. Clueless!!!!!
 

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Dude, if you are dating a 19 year old you should be at least 40. That was about like when my Daddy was dating my Mommy. She had class and was beautiful (hence the reason she didn't want a pimply teenager). My daddy had little outer beauty and even less inner beauty. However, he did know just about every local politician in town. That always helps.

I really don't know what a 19 year old girl would want in an 18 year old boy. She should be years more mature than he is. Just shows you how f**** up most of America is these days.
 
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sparky0000 said:
Dude, if you are dating a 19 year old you should be at least 40. That was about like when my Daddy was dating my Mommy. She had class and was beautiful (hence the reason she didn't want a pimply teenager). My daddy had little outer beauty and even less inner beauty. However, he did know just about every local politician in town. That always helps.

I really don't know what a 19 year old girl would want in an 18 year old boy. She should be years more mature than he is. Just shows you how f**** up most of America is these days.

look at this guy's threads......no way he is serious (see luke skywalker type trolling)

y ahochu v rasiyu poyehat obratno!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ricorico

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So Sparky,

Should 18-25 year olds guys be dating 9-12.5 year old girls? if girls 19 should date guys at least 40? It may not be illegal in your neck of the woods for 18-25 year olds to date kids, but it is illegal here. Stay in the Ukraine. You belong there.
can you post anything not Anti-American or Pro- Eastern Europe? Why are you here? There are probably tons of Eastern European forums for you to join. And if the girls are so easy to talk to ,date and bed, how do you find time to come here?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gangster Of Love said:
Yeah, but why can't you just post 'em here. Why are you so lazy to help a brotha out?
Some people can get all the help in the world and it still won't do them any good.
 
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