"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I took this girl out last Friday. Top level date, somewhat awkard but no biggie. We've been texting all week, and she does intitate. I've asked her out again and she ignores it. I stop texting and she will text me the next day. I have a few other women, so it doesn't sting that much.

I met her on tinder, and she was new to it and I'm sure she wants to see some other guys. How should I handle this situation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seems you are in the friendzone and...

Troll or not?

Concept of dating is to go on dates, not chat around like a friend.
 
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Von said:
Seems you are in the friendzone and...

Troll or not?

Concept of dating is to go on dates, not chat around like a friend.
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I'm going to have to agree with Von..... YOU ARE TOO AVAILABLE TO HER, YOU ARE GIVING AWAY YOUR TIME FOR FREE. She's done with you.

What I would recommend (IMO) is the next time your interest in a girl, CALL HER. Keep it very short and simple and schedule a date with fixed time. CONVERSATIONS SHOULD HAPPEN ON THE DATE ITSELF NOT THROUGH TEXTING. Stop trying to date women through the phone and create interest in person. On top of that you should be dating several girls....
 
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