"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I took this girl out last Friday. Top level date, somewhat awkard but no biggie. We've been texting all week, and she does intitate. I've asked her out again and she ignores it. I stop texting and she will text me the next day. I have a few other women, so it doesn't sting that much.

I met her on tinder, and she was new to it and I'm sure she wants to see some other guys. How should I handle this situation?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Seems you are in the friendzone and...

Troll or not?

Concept of dating is to go on dates, not chat around like a friend.
 
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Von said:
Seems you are in the friendzone and...

Troll or not?

Concept of dating is to go on dates, not chat around like a friend.
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I'm going to have to agree with Von..... YOU ARE TOO AVAILABLE TO HER, YOU ARE GIVING AWAY YOUR TIME FOR FREE. She's done with you.

What I would recommend (IMO) is the next time your interest in a girl, CALL HER. Keep it very short and simple and schedule a date with fixed time. CONVERSATIONS SHOULD HAPPEN ON THE DATE ITSELF NOT THROUGH TEXTING. Stop trying to date women through the phone and create interest in person. On top of that you should be dating several girls....
 
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