"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I took this girl out last Friday. Top level date, somewhat awkard but no biggie. We've been texting all week, and she does intitate. I've asked her out again and she ignores it. I stop texting and she will text me the next day. I have a few other women, so it doesn't sting that much.

I met her on tinder, and she was new to it and I'm sure she wants to see some other guys. How should I handle this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seems you are in the friendzone and...

Troll or not?

Concept of dating is to go on dates, not chat around like a friend.
 
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Von said:
Seems you are in the friendzone and...

Troll or not?

Concept of dating is to go on dates, not chat around like a friend.
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I'm going to have to agree with Von..... YOU ARE TOO AVAILABLE TO HER, YOU ARE GIVING AWAY YOUR TIME FOR FREE. She's done with you.

What I would recommend (IMO) is the next time your interest in a girl, CALL HER. Keep it very short and simple and schedule a date with fixed time. CONVERSATIONS SHOULD HAPPEN ON THE DATE ITSELF NOT THROUGH TEXTING. Stop trying to date women through the phone and create interest in person. On top of that you should be dating several girls....
 
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