well after 5.5 days of no contact, i decided to call her and leave a voicemail. It was real short just saying "hey just wanted to see what your work schedule was looking like this week, we need to go get a drink sometime. call me back. bye". I know an easy way to gauge her interest. If she calls back shes interested, if not shes not, next! Ill keep you all updated.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
date goes from horrible to bed in 5 hours, then???
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MacAvoy
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Good job on the recovery and giving her space. Just don't make the same mistake if she comes back. I think you might have salvaged this one.
so do you guys think theres anything I can pull of at this point to at least get a booty call out of the deal? Im pretty sure at this point she was just looking for a one nighter, but damn it was good and Id love to tear her sheets off again. I havent talked to her in just over a week now, what you guys think, wait 2 more weeks and show up at her work (a bar), with some buddies to get a drink? Any ideas?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MacAvoy
Banned
It may have been a great piece of azz but just think how many other great pieces of azz are you letting fall through the cracks by thinking about the past and not focussing on the future and hitting new tail.
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
oh i dont let anything fall through the cracks trust me. Ive got another girl on the line already, but she snores and I sleep horribly to start with. Shes hot though, but damn, I can find something wrong with any chick.
DonGorgon
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