well after 5.5 days of no contact, i decided to call her and leave a voicemail. It was real short just saying "hey just wanted to see what your work schedule was looking like this week, we need to go get a drink sometime. call me back. bye". I know an easy way to gauge her interest. If she calls back shes interested, if not shes not, next! Ill keep you all updated.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
date goes from horrible to bed in 5 hours, then???
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MacAvoy
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Good job on the recovery and giving her space. Just don't make the same mistake if she comes back. I think you might have salvaged this one.
so do you guys think theres anything I can pull of at this point to at least get a booty call out of the deal? Im pretty sure at this point she was just looking for a one nighter, but damn it was good and Id love to tear her sheets off again. I havent talked to her in just over a week now, what you guys think, wait 2 more weeks and show up at her work (a bar), with some buddies to get a drink? Any ideas?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MacAvoy
Banned
It may have been a great piece of azz but just think how many other great pieces of azz are you letting fall through the cracks by thinking about the past and not focussing on the future and hitting new tail.
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
oh i dont let anything fall through the cracks trust me. Ive got another girl on the line already, but she snores and I sleep horribly to start with. Shes hot though, but damn, I can find something wrong with any chick.
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