well after 5.5 days of no contact, i decided to call her and leave a voicemail. It was real short just saying "hey just wanted to see what your work schedule was looking like this week, we need to go get a drink sometime. call me back. bye". I know an easy way to gauge her interest. If she calls back shes interested, if not shes not, next! Ill keep you all updated.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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date goes from horrible to bed in 5 hours, then???
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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MacAvoy
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Good job on the recovery and giving her space. Just don't make the same mistake if she comes back. I think you might have salvaged this one.
so do you guys think theres anything I can pull of at this point to at least get a booty call out of the deal? Im pretty sure at this point she was just looking for a one nighter, but damn it was good and Id love to tear her sheets off again. I havent talked to her in just over a week now, what you guys think, wait 2 more weeks and show up at her work (a bar), with some buddies to get a drink? Any ideas?
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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MacAvoy
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It may have been a great piece of azz but just think how many other great pieces of azz are you letting fall through the cracks by thinking about the past and not focussing on the future and hitting new tail.
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
oh i dont let anything fall through the cracks trust me. Ive got another girl on the line already, but she snores and I sleep horribly to start with. Shes hot though, but damn, I can find something wrong with any chick.
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