well after 5.5 days of no contact, i decided to call her and leave a voicemail. It was real short just saying "hey just wanted to see what your work schedule was looking like this week, we need to go get a drink sometime. call me back. bye". I know an easy way to gauge her interest. If she calls back shes interested, if not shes not, next! Ill keep you all updated.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
date goes from horrible to bed in 5 hours, then???
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MacAvoy
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Good job on the recovery and giving her space. Just don't make the same mistake if she comes back. I think you might have salvaged this one.
so do you guys think theres anything I can pull of at this point to at least get a booty call out of the deal? Im pretty sure at this point she was just looking for a one nighter, but damn it was good and Id love to tear her sheets off again. I havent talked to her in just over a week now, what you guys think, wait 2 more weeks and show up at her work (a bar), with some buddies to get a drink? Any ideas?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MacAvoy
Banned
It may have been a great piece of azz but just think how many other great pieces of azz are you letting fall through the cracks by thinking about the past and not focussing on the future and hitting new tail.
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
ps most times a new piece of tail is great (given the circumstances of how it happened)
oh i dont let anything fall through the cracks trust me. Ive got another girl on the line already, but she snores and I sleep horribly to start with. Shes hot though, but damn, I can find something wrong with any chick.
DonGorgon
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