"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Date girl that banged a friend of mine

pyros

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Hi there DJ's.

A friend of mine(not a very good friend, just a dude I know) dated this girl for a month, but they broke up two weeks ago.
He said to me that HE broke up, because the girl is crazy.

Anyway, this girl is pretty hot.
It seems she likes me because for the last week she's been honking everytime she saw me in the street while she was driving. Today, she stopped the car for a minute and we talked. She offered me a ride, but my work was just around the corner. Anyway, I'd like to have asked her for her number, but while we were talking I was thinking:
' this hot girl, my friend broke up with her...is she realy crazy? I don't know, I'd like to bang her...blah,blah...' so in the end I said: 'ok, see you around! ' and I forgot to ask for the number.

Well, since I did not ask for her number, how do I get it now?
now I just wanted to send her a FB message asking for it (adding some humor also, or some joke), and then call her next day, talk for a bit and set a date. BUT I think it is not good that she adds me in FB, not yet, it would kill all the mystery.

What do you think? any tips? how do I get the number?
I'd just like to get to know her...and if she's fine... make out etc.


Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Htienvu

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Why would some guys want get with a girl who's already had his friend's d**k in her. I fail to understand!!! There are plenty more fish out there.
 

Desdinova

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pyros said:
Well, since I did not ask for her number, how do I get it now?
Get it next time (and if) you run into her again. Until then, approach other women. She's not the only single woman in existence.

When the opportunity presents itself, you need to take advantage of it. Approach more women, practice asking for their numbers, and it'll eventually become automatic.
 

pyros

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As I said, I just have some friendship with this dude, so I see no difference whether or not she banged him or some other guy.
Besides, I just want to bang her..nothing more for now.

I would have got her number but I was feeling confused because of all the stuff I was thinking while I talked to her. Anyway I think I'll send her a FB message tomorrow or the day after, because its obvious she likes me so the opportunity is already here.
 

Zerro

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Htienvu said:
Why would some guys want get with a girl who's already had his friend's d**k in her. I fail to understand!!! There are plenty more fish out there.
It depends on the guy. Hell, there's a chick whom one of my cousins briefly dated (dunno if he ever banged her) and that doesn't make her less attractive in my eyes. Maybe it's because he's a cool enough guy that it shows she at least has good taste.

On the other hand there are a few dudes whom any chick whose been with them is automatically spoiled for me. Often it's because they're such douchebags that she apparently has bad taste and/or is too easy, plus the implication of how many diseases she may be carrying due to it.

Also there is the issue that if she met me and another dude at the same time, picks him over me, then comes to me after getting dumped by him that I don't want much to do with her if only because I don't like being the second choice. (Doesn't apply to the first case above as they were already broken up before I ever met her.)
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Deep Dish

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You should wait until you see her next; it will have a greater impact. If you FB her, it may convey the subliminal message you didn't have the balls to ask her. If you have been bumping into her as often as you have been, what's the problem in waiting? Patience is a virtue.
 
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