"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rowing_mike

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Hey, has anyone got a few tips on dancing and grinding? I've realised sadly I can't keep playing the "I'm wasted" card.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lamia

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bah waste of time. I think approaching someone face to face rather then **** to ass will get you somewhere
 

WesCottII

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I always found birds started grinding with me if they liked me, if they do, just put your **** near her arse, and grind. S'not hard.
 

eminence

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so instead of actually playing the im wasted card, get wasted, and theres your liquid confidence...now go dance and practice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Doe Boii

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just hold her waist and let her work her magic while you push back...in DALLAS these boppa's here drop on the floor and start doin every freaky dance you can think of and all i do when im wit em is push back and hold they waist. or be da cool dude post up on the wall, and when a girl YOUVE SEEN GRINDIN walk's past say somethin C&F
 

rowing_mike

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Cool cheers for the tips. Lamia, that wasn't really possible. Had around 40 girls on the dance floor, occasionally one off it. Couldn't really get wasted, last party they had to carry me back, though I got half way there. I just guessed my way through, had it easier because of my looks and took a couple of numbers before I left.
 
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