"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dancing/grinding

rowing_mike

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Hey, has anyone got a few tips on dancing and grinding? I've realised sadly I can't keep playing the "I'm wasted" card.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lamia

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bah waste of time. I think approaching someone face to face rather then **** to ass will get you somewhere
 

WesCottII

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I always found birds started grinding with me if they liked me, if they do, just put your **** near her arse, and grind. S'not hard.
 

eminence

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so instead of actually playing the im wasted card, get wasted, and theres your liquid confidence...now go dance and practice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doe Boii

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just hold her waist and let her work her magic while you push back...in DALLAS these boppa's here drop on the floor and start doin every freaky dance you can think of and all i do when im wit em is push back and hold they waist. or be da cool dude post up on the wall, and when a girl YOUVE SEEN GRINDIN walk's past say somethin C&F
 

rowing_mike

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Cool cheers for the tips. Lamia, that wasn't really possible. Had around 40 girls on the dance floor, occasionally one off it. Couldn't really get wasted, last party they had to carry me back, though I got half way there. I just guessed my way through, had it easier because of my looks and took a couple of numbers before I left.
 
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