"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damnit, I met really interesting girl, The catch, she has a boyfriend

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Rarely is a waste of time to "sarge" a woman with a boyfriend as most "quality" "hot" women will have a boyfriend. And it is a nature of most women to dump their "boyfriend" once she finds a better one. Call it branch swing.

Now...if she cheats on her boyfriend (e.g. does not branch swing)...that's bad.
If she is married or living or engaged with him...that's bad.
If her boyfriend is your friend, family member, co-worker, a very good aquaintance...that's bad.

Other than that...women that a LOT of men go after...tend to have a boyfriend for the most part. How serious? That always remains to be seen.

If she does not show any interest for you...the right thing to do is move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Didn't read anything but the first post, but unless you know her boyfriend, go for it. I let a great opportunity slip through my fingers because I of some reason thought it was immoral to "make her cheat". Long story short, she was interested when she had a boyfriend, she lost interest when they broke up. Lesson learned.

My reply is totally off-topic if the issue is how to make her interested, though.
 
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