"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damnit, I met really interesting girl, The catch, she has a boyfriend

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Rarely is a waste of time to "sarge" a woman with a boyfriend as most "quality" "hot" women will have a boyfriend. And it is a nature of most women to dump their "boyfriend" once she finds a better one. Call it branch swing.

Now...if she cheats on her boyfriend (e.g. does not branch swing)...that's bad.
If she is married or living or engaged with him...that's bad.
If her boyfriend is your friend, family member, co-worker, a very good aquaintance...that's bad.

Other than that...women that a LOT of men go after...tend to have a boyfriend for the most part. How serious? That always remains to be seen.

If she does not show any interest for you...the right thing to do is move on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Didn't read anything but the first post, but unless you know her boyfriend, go for it. I let a great opportunity slip through my fingers because I of some reason thought it was immoral to "make her cheat". Long story short, she was interested when she had a boyfriend, she lost interest when they broke up. Lesson learned.

My reply is totally off-topic if the issue is how to make her interested, though.
 
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