Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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dualman7

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I go to a gym loaded with hotties. Anyway there is this one girl who I can tell is definately interested. The problem is

A. We have ony spoken once

B> She looks like she's about 17, but with a perfect body.

Should I trust my instinct that she's too young and just look the other way when she is around me?

I am 22 BTW.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rsxy

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I would ask her how old she is one day if you talk to her again. I wouldnt pass up the opportunity. Maybe she just turned 18? You never know...
 

sfalexi

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Or maybe she could just look young for her age.

Ways to find out might include seeing if she drives there alone (don't know what legal driving age is wherever you're from). Maybe (if you're into that stuff or can fake it well enough) ask her horoscope sign and then ask her when she was born. Maybe get into a convo, show her your license picture telling her you don't photograph well, then ask to see hers or something like that.

Alexi
 

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I've seen threads about 'legal' ages before, not necessarily on this website- but others.

Correct me if i'm wrong, but from what i've seen you can have a 4 year grace period.

16+4=20 (20 y/o guy, 16 y/o girl)
17+4=21 (21 y/o guy, 17 y/o girl)

I've also seen people divide their own age by two, then add 7. There's a lot of wacky forumlas and stuff out there.

Just use your best judgement when it comes to this.

Good luck bro

-FD
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luveno

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If its not illegal, and you are interested in only sex, then go for it. Seventeen year olds aren't known for their LTR skills.
 

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Well i'm from Queensland, Australia, and the legal age here is 16. Once they're over 16 they can do whoever they want (there is an exception to those who are in a position of power over them, e.g. teacher or doctor etc.)..

Anyway, I thought there was a 2 year grace period in the U.S. (not that i know much about over there). E.g. If you're 18 you can go for youngest of 16, 19 go for 17, then from there on it's just 18+? Gotta allow for relationships that started earlier.
 

Heizen

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That is not how it works

Age of consent changes with every state (Rangine from 14 to 18 for consent to have heterosexual sex), but usually once you are over 18, you cannot tap anything younger then 18, legally.

With that said, I say go for it anyways.
 

bud_2005

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Famous people are doing it so why can't you. When Lindsay Lohan was 17 she was dating a 22 year old. Hilary Duff was seen kissing a 25 year old.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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