"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damn youngins

dualman7

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I go to a gym loaded with hotties. Anyway there is this one girl who I can tell is definately interested. The problem is

A. We have ony spoken once

B> She looks like she's about 17, but with a perfect body.

Should I trust my instinct that she's too young and just look the other way when she is around me?

I am 22 BTW.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rsxy

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I would ask her how old she is one day if you talk to her again. I wouldnt pass up the opportunity. Maybe she just turned 18? You never know...
 

sfalexi

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Or maybe she could just look young for her age.

Ways to find out might include seeing if she drives there alone (don't know what legal driving age is wherever you're from). Maybe (if you're into that stuff or can fake it well enough) ask her horoscope sign and then ask her when she was born. Maybe get into a convo, show her your license picture telling her you don't photograph well, then ask to see hers or something like that.

Alexi
 

Fumbduck

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I've seen threads about 'legal' ages before, not necessarily on this website- but others.

Correct me if i'm wrong, but from what i've seen you can have a 4 year grace period.

16+4=20 (20 y/o guy, 16 y/o girl)
17+4=21 (21 y/o guy, 17 y/o girl)

I've also seen people divide their own age by two, then add 7. There's a lot of wacky forumlas and stuff out there.

Just use your best judgement when it comes to this.

Good luck bro

-FD
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Luveno

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If its not illegal, and you are interested in only sex, then go for it. Seventeen year olds aren't known for their LTR skills.
 

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Well i'm from Queensland, Australia, and the legal age here is 16. Once they're over 16 they can do whoever they want (there is an exception to those who are in a position of power over them, e.g. teacher or doctor etc.)..

Anyway, I thought there was a 2 year grace period in the U.S. (not that i know much about over there). E.g. If you're 18 you can go for youngest of 16, 19 go for 17, then from there on it's just 18+? Gotta allow for relationships that started earlier.
 

Heizen

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That is not how it works

Age of consent changes with every state (Rangine from 14 to 18 for consent to have heterosexual sex), but usually once you are over 18, you cannot tap anything younger then 18, legally.

With that said, I say go for it anyways.
 

bud_2005

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Famous people are doing it so why can't you. When Lindsay Lohan was 17 she was dating a 22 year old. Hilary Duff was seen kissing a 25 year old.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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